Think BIG

Im here again..

Kring kring...its the phone!Im glad you called..but..

Damn!..you misconceived what i have told you a day before..The good story of mine is really killing you..?Oh..please..rezeki kita berbeza-beza Allah tentukan..come on..

Here comes the story..

This morning i was in the tenseness state..lucky darling honey still besides me..being the best listener in the world..the best soulmate who listens attentively!alhamdulillah..

The question is why people can't think big rather than small ?Positive rather than negative?If you do,you'll be the healthy glowing person inside outside..But if you don't..you might turned to be THE MEAN PERSON.

Now..does it sound lovely to you buddy?I don't think so!

Mean means 'small'. Mean people live small,think small and feel small.The smaller the meaner.

What's my choice?Of course i wanna think BIG.So in any circumstances,i still have opportunity being a decent,pleasant,nice and lovely person..no?

I know you are in the tough, difficult, backbreaking, voiceless, unmanageable and what not for ages..but does'nt mean your situation abide by or comply with mine.

Indeed the look seems alike..but the entity we had here are totally differ!Let's just have the husnus zhon to Allah,to friend, to everybody..

Im not the expert here,but from reading (the best therapy after shopping!) i can tell that the mean people being hurt of someone.They're hurt!Really hurt.Their parents,their lovers,their friends,their kids,their neighbour did them dirty.Disrespect..they were crushed.And they're still afraid the pain will never stop,or will happen again.. Did you've been hurt by someone?

Then comes the pointing finger, doubtful, speculation, envy, jelousy..or maybe she's trying to be nice..that she advising me to be a better person?ermm maybe :) *masih lagi sangka baik yer*

How to overcome this situation dengan selamber nye..?

If the insults are laughabel,just laugh.If the mean person has a point,tell her that you get it.Practice what you would say if you felt big and invulnerable,then say it,even if you're scared.Be 'BIG' by responding to the cruelty with honest calm rather than aggression or submissiveness.These what i did..Yeay!

So what's your method?

*Make up your mind darling..My doas always be with you..*

The words for today is think big think big think big.Think positive 8.5/10 think positive 8.5/10 think positive 8.5/10..

xoxo